Sunday, May 21, 2023

A disjointed week.

Friday morning. The kitchen units are delivered. The electrician and the kitchen installers , unexpectedly and inexplicably, also show up. They are supposed to start on Monday. Five vans fill the courtyard.  " As we're here we might as well get cracking " says the head kitchen fitter. ' Think again' replies 'The Font' who has a kitchen to pack up and move to the house in town. The kitchen fitters and electricians depart.


For Angus this last week saw two trips across to the other side of the country.  His eldest brother finding that a routine 'dry cough' examination quickly accelerates into something altogether less friendly. Is it better to get too much or too little notice of such things ?  From the front door I can make it to the west coast and back in a day. Never ending daylight and the twice daily flight by Scotlands favourite airline in its doughty twelve seater makes the journey easy if not smooth. 


Family gathering from distant parts. A few bedside minutes alone to tell him that when I was four (and he a worldly wise seventeen ) he was my super star. He taught me my first swear word ( Bloody - and a stern telling off from his father for leading the youngest astray ), listened to the Beatles ( how cool was it listening to Please Please Me in early 1960's Scotland ? ) and knew, to  Angus's satisfaction,  the answer to every conceivable question. He'd been to South Africa and had travelled in a jet. On the mainland he met girls from Paisley and Kilmarnock. What exotic sophisticates they were and what tales he had to tell. One summer holiday we walked down to the harbour to watch the islands brand new Wolseley police car being hauled out of the water after Sergeant McLaughlin parked it on the ferry ramp with the handbrake off. It sank until only the tip of the blue light on the roof was visible above the water. To this day I don't think I've seen anything that could match that for  putting the 'awe' in awesome. I laugh, he sleeps.


On the journey back I stop and enjoy the weak sunshine in the square by the station. There's twenty minutes before my train.  The entire population of Scotland seems to have had the same idea. I admire the lions on the war memorial in the centre of Glasgow. They have a wonderful imperial haughtiness.


Sophie is reunited with the errant component of her flock in the Dundee station car park. We then head to the fancy golf hotel. During Covid it opened an open air bar with red rattan chairs. For once it is warm enough to sit outside and sip a glass of restorative champagne . The staff bring Sophie a bowl with roast salmon slivers out of the oven , basmati rice and beans.  This , she quietly signals by means of much nose licking, is the sort of life she could become accustomed to. The diva has found her milieu. 

This coming week will be busy.


20 comments:

WFT Nobby said...

Angus, on this blog we hear relatively little about your family beyond the 'Font' and Sophie, but this is devastating news and my heart goes out to you. Our siblings know about a part of our life in a way that, as we age, no-one else does. Those minutes of shared memories are so precious.
Wishing you strength for the coming week.
Gail.

jabblog said...

Happy memories shared that might not otherwise have been expressed. Wishing you fortitude in adversity.

Yamini MacLean said...

Hari OM
Such scenes as police cars in seawater and big brother heroes are what make of life a tapestry. I am glad you were able to add another stitch or two to yours by sitting with one of the threads. I, too, wish you 'grit' for these coming weeks. YAM xx

Virginia said...

Oh Angus, that is such sad news. Towards the end of our lives, those connections to our beginnings take on a very special meaning. I hope you get some more time with him, and that hie is comfortable. XX Hugs

Coppa's girl said...

So very sorry to hear sad news of your big brother, Angus. Wishing you strength for however long you may need it.
Not having any siblings, I have no-one to rely on for tales of my extreme youth - I must rely on my own vague memories.
Sophie what a best day ever - reunited with the errant member of your flock and a bowl of roast salmon slivers, rice and beans. You lucky girl!
Let's hope that the kitchen fitters turn up on Monday and all goes well.

Tara said...

Hugs and support to you with respect to your brother's bad news. "That sucks", about sums it up.

~Kim at Golden Pines~ said...

I'm also sorry to hear about your brother. I will echo the kind words left before mine. Being the only sister to 4 brothers, having lost one, and my oldest brother not in the best of health, I know how precious and treasured those memories and time together in those quiet moments can be. And it's always comforting to have 'a Sophie' to come home too. Safe travels and prayers for peace and strength in the coming days.

Anonymous said...

Sad news - our thoughts are with you and your family.
Wendy (Wales)

Travel said...

Take care of yourself, and your family. I hope the kitchen guys show up in the morning. Now you know what Sophie expects every day.

Fay said...

My thoughts are with you, your brother, and family. My husband received similar news a year ago. I am of a mind, perhaps, that it is preferable to receive such news late in life, on a short term basis. Although news of that kind is what no one wants to receive.

Stephanie said...

Thank you for sharing your memories of a much loved and dashing older brother. How difficult it is to give voice to all we feel when saying goodbye to those who have always been a part of our lives. May his days be touched by grace. On a different note, I do like the cheerful red rattan chairs. I hope all goes smoothly in the coming weeks.

Jake of Florida said...

I'm so glad you were able to reminisce with your big brother, once your super hero! My dad, who lived to 103, would tell me how lonely he felt as those he could share memories with gradually disappeared. Salmon slivers for Sophie...lovely and deliciously poetic image!

Bailey Bob Southern Dog said...

Angus, I am sending heart felt thoughts to you and your family. What wonderful memories you have of your ‘super star’ brother. Thank you for sharing them with all of us.

Pamela Terry and Edward said...

I'm very sorry, Angus. I'll hold you and your family in my heart. x

waterdog said...

Facing the potential loss of a loved one - either human or animal, is difficult in the short term, but harder to bear if the waiting
period is long, in my opinion. Cogent thoughts before mine were offered in heartfelt admiration for you and your family. Best wishes to all.
JoAnn in Maryland

EAS said...

Although busy, I hope your week will not be chaotic. May your family time be filled with more fond memories and laughter - there’s time for everything else later. Sending my best to you and yours including more special dinners for Sophie!

Camille said...

At such a loss to express our deepest sympathy to your wonderful brother and family. Holding you in our heart and prayers.

Taste of France said...

Wishing you the strength in this tough time. Reminiscing with a sibling is good medicine for the soul.

Pam in NH said...

So sorry Angus. As always, love to you, your family and our darling Sophie. XXX

Janice in Northern Calif said...

I am glad that you were able to spend time with your brother. Stories and adventures are such a treasure to share with each other. Hugs.